solstice
Winter Solstice Haiku
dank and dreary might
rule this short day and long night
but wednesday is festivus
winter has begun
today earth has exactly
twenty-four months left
today earth has exactly
twenty-four months left
It's like rain...snow eave-en — Snagglepuss
Santacon - Santa Rampage
To participate in Santacon/Santa Rampage (and yes it can be referred to either way, two groups the PDX Cacophony Society and Drunken Rampage do this
Get a suit.
Learn where and when to meet (don't ask me how, the truth is out there).
Call all of the hundreds of Santas you interact with Santa.
The 4 fucks of Santacon:
1. Don't fuck with children.
2. Don't fuck with the cops. (You are dressed like me.)
3. Don't fuck with security. (They will call the cops.)
4. Don't fuck with Santa.
Never wash your Santa suit and repeat (next December).
Aren't we forgetting the true meaning of Christmas...you know...the birth of Santa? — Bart Simpson
Hue, Sue, and SF Heros
Entering our current morning eating place (my dad and mine) my autonomous-system forced me to cringe when it registered that the front door bing had been replaced by a cacophonous leather belt of reindeer bells bouncing off glass. My reaction caused the owner, Hue Lee Chi, to proclaim with every one of his terrible teeth on display, “You can’t sneak up on Hue no more.”As he unnecessarily led the way to my father’s second-favorite table, (I could see Dad’s back from the door) I toyed with the alternatives: ‘Hue can’t sneak up on you no more,’ ‘Hue can’t sneak up on Hue no more,’ or—my least favorite—‘You can’t sneak up on you no more.’
I took the seat facing my dad. Hue began to offer me a menu as he said with all his normal nodding and teeth, “Same same?”
“Yes, thank you, Hue Lee.” I pronounced it almost like Julie but with more breath around the J and almost no tongue around the L.
“Okay. Good. Good. Almost right.” He said keeping the menu and entering the kitchen.
Dad enunciated, “Hew can no longer sneak up on Yue.”
“I think I preferred the previous possibilities of being snuck up on.”
“That’s a lot of bell disdain, coming from you.”
I smiled at Dad’s snide reference to my back-to-a-wall-face-to-the-door thing and turned it into a smile and nod of thanks as Hue brought my strawberry soda and topped off Dad’s coffee.
Hue returned to the kitchen. In the middle of Dad’s statement: “I asked about why the sleigh bells in September and Hue acted like I was the first person to mention a holiday correlation ...” the bells crashed the arrival of another customer and Hue came out of the kitchen. “... so as a year-round thing it’ll certainly take some getting used to.”
“Something’s happened to Hue’s wife. I can’t remember her name.” I said.
“Why? What makes you say that?” He turned in his seat and looked over his shoulder as if I had just witnessed something, then turned back when all he could see was Hue taking an order. When I said nothing, he said, “Oh, it’s that thing you do isn’t it?”
“Yea. It’s that thing I do.”
“Suki or Sue Kee. I recall Hue calling her Sue.”
I must have done something with my facial muscles because Dad said, “Don’t start with it.”
“What?” I tried an innocent confused look.
“You were gonna do a how-could-I-recall-calling-her-Sue routine or somesuch. Don’t change the subject. What did you discern?” He skewed the word discern in such a way that it sounded like he was both skeptical and proud of that thing I do.
“The bells; his past body posture, facial expressions, and routine movements—compared to today’s; and his continued use of a verbal patch.”
“Patch?”
“The bit about not being able to sneak up on him. He used it with you, me, and them.” I motioned with my head at the people who had just given their order.
“People use familiar words or phrases over-and-over to patch over gaps. Sometimes the gap they think needs patched is merely a pause so they’ll use umm, or ya know, or like. Other times the gap patches-over the truth. I think Hue is using the sneak-up bit so he won’t have to explain the real reason bells are there is because he has to spend more time in the kitchen, which means Sue is not back there.”
“So, maybe, she took the day off. Why do you think something bad happened?”
“His smile is turned up an extra watt or three. He is carrying himself stiffer. Some of the reasons are not easy to put into words and when I do they sound flimsy all naked and alone by themselves.”
Hue’s arrival with my dinner of short ribs, rice, steamed vegetables, and tofu with a side of kosher pickles, and Dad’s sausage omelette with extra-crispy hash browns and side of muffins breakfast, paused the conversation.
After eating for a while, Dad said, “Are you going to test your theory?”
“Not a theory,” I explained. “A fact which you don’t have sufficient evidence to believe exists yet.”
“All right smart guy. How bad of a something do you think has happened?”
“Hospital bad.”
“This food tastes and looks the same as Sue’s.” He said.
“Just means Hue’s insuring everything goes out the same.”
Hue returned to top off drinks and I said, “Jue-lee, when will your wife return from the hospital?”
Hue’s smile crawled back inside his mouth as he said, “How you know? Food not good?”
After we assured him it was great, he said, “Suke’s mother have a stroke. She be back after couple days I hope. But, my nephew he cook good. You still notice different though, hunh?”
“I didn’t notice any change in the food. The food is great. I could tell from your behavior. You put loud bells on your door so you could be in the kitchen more.” I pointed unnecessarily at the door.
“Oh.” His face seemed to relax back into it’s normal explosion-smile of terrible teeth. “I get it!” He nodded with exuberance. “You doing that hero thing.”
I looked at my dad. His confused-expression indicated he hadn’t previously said anything about that thing I do to Hue.
Hue continued with, “Why hero always eat at Asian restaurant?”
I decided hero was not the word I was assuming it was, and in order to get out of my confusion I replied with, “I don’t know...why?”
“I dunno either. But Bladerunner, he eat Asian. Fifth element guy...Bruce Willis: Asian. Name a ess eff hero who doesn’t eat oriental food.”
I got it—weeks ago, he and I had talked about my love of old films—and I smiled. “Well, the guy from Dark City: he ate at an automat.”“Ahh” He waived the idea away, walking toward his kitchen, “Noir don’t count. Noir always gotta eat at a diner. You find an ess eff hero that eat something besides Asian, you tell me.”
The way I run this thing you'd think I knew something about it. — Bugs Bunny
The Decade's Best Horror Films
Spanning the sub-genres of monster, boogie man, vampire, slasher, and zombie—these are my ten-best horror films of the 2000's. (Actually, they are all monster films, aren't they?)
What for you bury me in the cold, cold ground? — The Tasmanian Devil
The Decade's Best Animated Films
Covering the techniques stop-motion, rotoscoping, traditional, and CGI—these are my ten-best animated films of the 2000's. The film genres represented are: Fantasy, Superhero, SF, Documentary, Action/Adventure, Mystery, and Comedy.
We cartoon characters can have a wonderful life if we only take advantage of it. — Heckle (or Jeckle)
gameboard
1. Begin in the proximity of the birth square.
2. Move according to the pips on your die.
3. Avoid as many bad spaces as possible.
4. Stop when you land on a death spot.
— Pogo Possum
evaluate the artist by comparing this 2010 artwork to:
Zonk Won't Hike Frozen Ground
I gotta have a bird! I'm weak, but I don't care! I can't help it! After all, I am a pus-thy cat. — Sylvester the cat
Byzantine Bullshit
I slowed my pace from march to stroll about a half-block from the Washington Square train stop because the status board read Blue Line to Hillsboro 9 min. Downshifting from stroll to meander, I began listening to the-already-waiting’s conversations. I paused near three college-age girls.“...to fuck on Saturday and I’s like, ‘He is so fetch. Maybe I should, you know?’ But then, I dunno.”
I meandered on when I didn’t hear the obligatory reply: ‘Gretchen stop trying to make fetch happen it's not going to happen.’ I’m not bothered by cute people's colloquial use of fuck, or even their inane overuse of like—but mishandle fetch and I decline to participate...even as a skulking eavesdropper.
“...only that’s never sufficient is it? Always needs the next. The brightest. The mostest. You’ve heard of champagne taste but beer budget? Well, chauffeur taste and bus budget is how I...”
He could have been using the almost invisible Bluetooth, (and I’m not adverse to listening-in on one end of a wireless conversation; I sometimes get myself giggling imagining the other half) but this grimy guy didn’t have the posture or the requisite disconnect with the other members of the train stop to be loud-talking on a phone. I think he was preaching to himself about himself. I shuffled my feet along the sidewalk and—even though I had my sunglasses on—I became conscious of where my face was pointed and insured it remained away from him.
“...too early in the damn morning for that byzantine bullshit.”
Whoa, this could be a good one. Two tallish scruffs of indeterminable age—taking up waaay more space than their backpacks and hats-worn-askance should be able to fill—would, normally, never catch my ear. But byzantine bullshit? That’s a keeper.
I climbed the steps of the westbound Max-train behind them and stood in the isle near them.
“Tell me Scrait...do parasites like dat qualify for your program?”
“Naw. Dude’s a mosquito. No sense in swatting em when you can use repellant.”
“Mosquito hover round me...try to land (snap—I hear the sharp sound of a finger-click) I mash it, even if I am wearin Deet.”
“Deet? You wear you some Deet?” (This was spoken through a big smile.)
“Fuckyou....whatchou wear?” (Also, through a smile.)
“It’s an anology.”
“For reals? Here my dumb ass was thinkin it was a metaphor all dis time. Glad you here to set me scrait.”
Up to this point I’d thought scrait was the name of the one who used byzantine in a sentence. We all shuffled as seats emptied. Byzantine and Scrait ended up in a bench behind me as I took an isle seat next to a gray pantsuit with a gold duffle-purse too big for her body-frame.
“A metaphor is a type of analogy; a sub-set.” replied Byzantine.
Scrait said, “I was bein ironic....which is a type of sarcasm...a sub-set.”
The soft sound of clothing-against-clothing punctuated their snickers, and I imagined the exchange of elbow-nudges. I had hopes of gleaning more about Byzantine’s program, which (I assumed) Scrait had brought up after Grimy-bus-budget-guy asked one or both of them for money, but their conversation had travelled too far from the Washington Park train stop and I suspected I’d never hear more.
Just before I stood for my stop, Scrait asked, “So... what kinda insect qualifies?”After such a lengthy pause I was afraid I wouldn't hear Byzantine's answer before I got off—he said, with his face toward the window so his voice sounded much lower than it really was, “brown recluses and black widows.”
As I walked to my car, I wondered if he was still speaking metaphorically.
(...) — The Pink Panther
Santa and Easter Bunny
Everybody was a baby once, Arthur. Oh, sure—maybe not today or even yesterday—but once. Babies, chum: tiny, dimpled, fleshy mirrors of our us-ness, that parents hurl into the future, like leathery footballs of hope. And you've got to get a good spiral on that baby or evil will make an interception. — The Tick
Sneaky Low-Down Persistent Ellipses
. Her most recent ploy, (I choose to imagine a woman whose every feature conjures the word pert) is to use some innocuous cliché followed by dot dot dot times five...with each dot a link to their site.Yesterday's post was blessed by: A bird in hand is worth two in the bush................
I chose, rather than resort to Captchas, to create. Thanks pertness!
There are three things in life that people like to stare at: a flowing stream, a crackling fire and a Zamboni clearing the ice. — Charlie Brown
Mixed Meta For Stewed Mackerel
In criminal investigation, sometimes you tackle the guy, sometimes you swing-and-miss, and—once-in-a-clue-loon—the guy takes a high dive (when it should've been obvious there's no diving in ice fishing). This was one of those times. I recall the strange details of this case as if they unfolded yesterday instead of over a decade ago. I feel slightly guilty (still) about the dreadful outcome. It also still makes me giggle a little bit.1: While badger hunting, we are gifted with a mackerel stew recipe.
I had three on-the-job-trainee interns: Hughie, Dewy, and Louie. I tasked Hughie with locating a suspect, Mr Ecks, who did not want to be found. After two days of flailing, Hughie said he didn't think it was possible to locate Mr Ecks's address without a warrant.
"We can't get a warrant without probable cause, Hughie. You have to find him first. Then we talk to him." I said.
"Everyone I called told me either they didn't have any information on him, or that I needed a warrant before they could give me his information. I'm no good at this." He said.
I looked over the agencies he'd contacted. The local cable provider was the least significant company on his list who said they needed a warrant. I said, "Call the cable company back. Ask for the same lady you spoke with the first time. Once you get her on the phone, explain everything to her. One hundred percent truth. Tell her what you know he did and why you know it; also tell her how this suspicion isn't enough for a judge to grant a warrant. Tell her all you need is his address. That this guy is going to get away with it if someone doesn't help us catch him. If she sticks to the warrant-bit, give her your name and number and ask her to call you if she changes her mind and thank her. Be overly nice to her. It can't hurt."An hour later he came back to my office. "She says if we go down there and show her a badge, she'll give us Mr Ecks's address."
"All that time on the phone! What the fuck Hughie? Are you goin steady with her yet?"
"Very funny. Actually, she and I kinda hit it off and she ... well, she had this complaint. Kind-of. Mostly, she wants it to be anonymous cause she's scared as greased hell that the info will point back at her. But if what she says is real, I think she just gave us a pretty big economic crime case."
As we drove downtown to show her my badge, Hughie explained how, before her divorce, Mrs Cable was the sole bookkeeper for her ex-husband's business. Mr Cable's company installed large overhead, hinged, and sliding garage doors. For the last four or five years Mr Cable met about every month or two with Mr Mackerel, who provided assistance in obtaining government contracts. Although Mrs Cable suspected Mr Cable paid his friend for the inside information, she never witnessed any actual graft.
2. I compile the stew ingredients.
To provide a smoke-screen, over a period of a few weeks I "conducted a review" of hundreds of various government contracts: plumbing, electrical, new construction, old construction-repair, siding, windows, roofing, and garage doors. I learned Mr Cable's company had been awarded 92.5% of all the garage door contracts on the military installation; 37 of 40 in the prior 4
½ years.One person was responsible for representing the government in these contracts: Mr Mackerel.
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¾ years earlier, Mr Mackerel had been promoted to the contracting position.These contracts were required to be open to the lowest bidder. The bidding process was always conducted with sealed envelopes. Between two and five other contracting companies routinely bid. Mr Cable's bid was the lowest by $10 to $50 on all but three contracts.
3. I put the ingredients I found in a pot.
I called Mr Cable and asked him to come to my office. The day he came for his interview, I sent Dewey and Lewie to go pick-up Mr Mackerel from his office. I advised both Cable and Mackerel—separately—of their legal rights for the crimes of: Conspiracy to Commit Fraud, Graft, Theft of Government Funds in Excess of $100,000.00, False Official Statements, and Bribery.
Neither of them said anything incriminating. Both claimed they only knew each other professionally.
I did not interrogate either of them.
I told Mr Cable that I didn't need a confession because I had a source who'd already provided all the information I needed, and concluded with, "...on the basis of that information, a judge will undoubtedly find you guilty. And—from my experience with white-collar crimes of this nature—you can look forward to a huge fine, being banned from all government contracts for 3 to 5 years, and probably probation." I then told Dewy to take his mug-shots and fingerprints.
I told Mr Mackerel that I didn't need a confession because I had a source who'd already provided all the information I needed, and concluded with, "...on the basis of that information, a judge will undoubtedly find you guilty. And—from my experience with white-collar crimes of this nature—you can look forward to a huge fine, losing your job, being banned from all future government employment and pension, and probably probation." I then told Louie to take his mug-shots and fingerprints.
4. I turn on the heat and stir.
Hughie was sent to interview some government co-workers of Mr Mackerel: Mr Ahe, Miss Bee, Mr Cee and Mrs Dee.
Louie was sent to interview a handful of construction employees of Mr Cable: Mr Eff, Mr Gee, Mr Ache and Mr Eye.
Dewy was sent to interview other owners of garage door installation companies: Mr Jay, Mr Kay and Mr Elle.
They were given a small list of questions to ask, like: Did you ever see Mr Cable and Mr Mackerel together outside of a professional setting? Did either Cable or Mackerel ever confide their fraudulent activities to you or anyone you know? None of the interviewees provided any information.
I met with the Director of Contracting. I briefed him on the facts of the case and recommended that he remove Mackerel from all duties involving contracts. He concurred, immediately suspended Mackerel and turned him into a high-paid receptionist.
5. I put a lid on the pot.
Mrs Cable called me.
"You are going to get me killed!" She said, "My ex was just here and he is going ape-poop-crazy. He accused me of turning them in and told me that if he finds out I turned him in he would kill me an bury me in the woods where nobody would ever find me! You said they would never know it was me. But I told you they would suspect me and now look, I don't know..."
"Mrs Cable. MRS CABLE! Calm down. Caaaalmmm dooowwwnn."
"Okay, sorry."
"What did you tell him?"
"I told him it wasn't me. That I had no reason to turn him in. I told him that we'd been divorced for over a year, so why would I turn him in now? Which did calm him a bit; but then he just got more worked up and he pointed outside at a dark sedan and said they were following him. Are you following him everywhere?"
"No. No, we don't have any reason to conduct surveillance on him. But I'm glad he's upset. That's a good thing. If he gets in touch with you again, just continue to deny, okay?"
6. The pot begins to boil.
"Hello, Mrs Cable?" I said, "Have you heard from your ex-husband since I spoke with you last week?"
"No."
"Good. I want you to call him and tell him you just got a phone call from the cops. That we asked to schedule an interview with you, but you told us that you couldn't until Saturday because of work. Then I need you to convince him that you are in a panic, that you don't know what to say or do. That you need his help. You need to convince him to come to your house on Saturday before noon and wait in the next room when we come to interview you at 1230. We'll act like it's the first time we've spoken; we'll ask all about your work as the company bookkeeper. . . you'll deny any knowledge. He'll overhear. Can you do it?"
7. I take the lid off the pot.
"How did everything go?" I asked Mrs Cable.
"Fantastic. He coached me on how to act and what to say. Then when your guys left he came out and I could see immediately that he no longer suspected me. He thought of me, more, as a co-conspirator at that point."
"So you don't feel in danger any more?"
"Nope. Not at all."
8. Mackerel stew is served.
"Special Agent Glines?"
"Speaking."
"This is Lieutenant Colombo from the Downtown Police Department. I've got a guy who confessed to shooting and killing your confidential informant in a case you're investigating where ... ummm, he ... they ... were doing some kind of contracting fraud?"
"Ahhh... umm, this is the first I've heard. I ... I'm ... sorry lieutenant—yes, I have an investigation of that nature. Who is the suspect? Can you tell me the name of the man who confessed to the shooting?"
"Yes, it's a Mister Mackerel. He says the guy he killed last night, around 2am, was your informant and I..."
"Is he sitting within earshot?"
"No. He's in another office."
"Well I can tell you he didn't murder my informant, because my informant is not a he. Obviously, Mackerel can't learn about this."
"Right."
"What was the name of the victim?" I asked.
"Ahhh....Mister Gee. He was a sub-contractor of his friend's, a Mr Cable. Mr Gee supposedly worked with them installing doors and, supposedly, knew all about their under-the-table stuff. Mackerel said he followed Gee to a Waffle House after a night of drinking and as Gee exited the restaurant Mackerel pointed a .22 caliber pistol at him, threatened him, and then shot him four times. Mr Gee was dead at the scene."
Leave us not jump to seclusions. — Popeye the Sailor
2009 Charted
4 minutes of Art (x 2)
Oscar for Best Supporting:
Do you recall how good The Dark Knight was...with Heath Ledger's Joker? That level of rare disturbingly-wondrous performance is, this year, Mo'Nique in Precious. The film has a well written script, fine acting, and good pacing—however—Mo'Nique's performance, as the noxiously vile woman who gave birth to Precious, is beyond amazing and turns an otherwise good film into a fantastic one.
Sanitized violence in movies has been accepted for years. What seems to upset everybody now is the showing of the consequences of violence. — Stanley Kubrick
The Decade's Best SF Films
I keep seeing lousy films and saying to myself, 'I don't know anything about movie-making, but I couldn't do any worse than this'. — Stanley Kubrick
My E.M. Crumpler Interview
Elizabeth M. Crumpler—a 25-year-old, Sarah Palin-lovin-republican, who recently lost two-stone and got married; and is a conservative-christian resident of Oklahoma, who owns a Scoodle—is my interviewee. Neil from Citizen of the Month wrote this about his Great Interview Experiment: "...In my mind, I visualize a permanent interview site where ... a liberal would interview a conservative, and a religious fundamentalist would interview a feminist lesbian. It wouldn’t matter if you liked or agreed with other person. We would still be neighbors, in a Mister Rogers sense." I think he was envisioning this: Me: When Oklahoma City is mentioned, most (of the citizens of the world) recall the Oklahoma City Bombing in April of 1995. You were 10½ years old at the time. Please describe your memories surrounding the incident, and how growing up with an act of hatred of this magnitude, on your doorstep, caused you to be the adult you are today.
EMC: Some people say that they could hear the sound 50 miles away. I don't remember that clearly, but it's possible.
I was in Mrs. Keller's 4th grade class and sometime in the middle of the morning I do remember the tone changing. The administration had made the decision not to reveal what had happened to the elementary school children and to let our parents handle it when we got home.
My parents picked me and my 2 younger brothers up from school that day. Both of them, in Dad's work vehicle. I knew there was something wrong. On the way home, they explained that something very bad had happened in Oklahoma City and that a lot of people had died. At the time, our local evening news had a "family-friendly" broadcast at 5pm. It was the one we watched generally. Whenever the theme music played that evening and the anchors began speaking, the first thing they said was, "Tonight's broadcast will not be our regular family-friendly show. Please be advised that there will be a number of graphic images shown tonight." That stuck with me. They never had another "family-friendly" newscast.
I cannot say how it changed the adult I would become. Probably the same as those who were children or not yet born on 9/11. It just is. As a child at that time, my world was still faerie tales, tree-houses, and the books I had my nose stuck in. Living in the country, OKC was a different world. I think if I had lived in The City (as we call it here), The Bombing might have left lingering scars on me. The truth is that I'd experienced tragedy much closer to home just 2 years before, when a family member was murdered. I carry those scars. That changed me. Turned a mama's girl into a whimpering, crying mess because I was scared that if I left my home I would return to find her dead...like my family member that had been killed. I think I owe it to my parents that I made it past The Bombing without further damage. They were proactive in explaining things and taking us to the site before the implosion. Letting us see that it was real. Sometimes the things that you can see and touch are so much less frightening than the image you may create in your mind.
Me: The decade’s end is fast approaching. I’d like your list of the ten best films made in the last ten years.
EMC: This is very difficult for me. I don't watch a lot of new things. In no particular order:
- il Mare (Siworae)
- Jeux d'enfants (Love Me if You Dare)
- Away from Her
- Things You Can Tell Just By Looking At Her
- Ten Tiny Love Stories
- 13 Conversations About One Thing
- Nine Lives
- Dancer in the Dark
- About a Boy
- La vie en rose
EMC: If I feel I've been misled, then, yes, I'll toss the book. I think I may have done this once in the past. I have a very awful problem though. No matter how hard I try I can not seem to give up a book. If I am 50 pages in, I'm going to stick it out until the end.
Me: I think 21 DEC 2012, will be a day no different than today (well, maybe colder). But what do you tell a fanatic who seems to continually bemoan the “pending apocalypse” and steers your every routine conversation in the direction of what the end of the world means to them and how it should be taken more seriously by you (assume this person is related to you close enough that stopping all communications is not an option)?
EMC: Funny, I dealt with a situation not unlike this for about a year. I had a deskmate and she was a blathering idiot. Her obsessions varied from week to week, but I have no doubt that if we were still working together this would be making its way into conversation.
In a situation like this I ask for facts. What do you have to back up what you're telling me? I ask questions to try and understand where they are coming from and why they believe this. If there is no concrete basis for your worry, tell me why you believe it is real? Is there any way that this event can be stopped? Do you believe we should even try.
It may be boring, but I would probably let it go. Having dealt with the ramblings of the insane for lengthy periods, I've become adept at sitting back, taking a deep breath, and going to my happy place.
Me: I’m an artist. Please look at some of my renderings, select one and explain any-and-all emotions, thoughts, or feelings it engenders—no matter good, bad, or ugly—I’m very interested in your opinion.
EMC: Finate — Acceptance, newness, life, calm, embrace, welcoming, peace, nostalgia, need.
Me: You and I share something in common: we are both the oldest of three. Tell me about how that biological-timing-fact made you into someone different than if you had been the middle sibling, or the youngest of the three.
EMC: In both of my siblings I see how my parents had to approach them differently than they did me. I was incredibly independent. My spirit was quiet and even, I was imaginative and my speech was bubbly. I feel very lucky to have been born first and even more so that I was the only female. I will be the first to say that it earned me some preferential treatment in certain cases.
The bad thing was: I was the oldest and the only girl. I know, I just said I thought I was lucky. But there is something that comes with being the oldest. You are the first. They don't want to mess up. I felt like a guinea pig. Their default answer to anything I wanted to do was, "NO." Better safe than sorry, right? Being the only girl made it worse. I lived in a house full of men, outside of my mom, and there was this intense need to protect me. In some ways I appreciate it, but there are a lot of things I would have liked to do.
Being the oldest prepared me for life alone. My autonomy helped me make it through college at times when I thought I would just give it up. I always knew what I wanted, had established goals, and worked to achieve them on my own. However, it also instilled in me a need to be "the best" and constantly try to please others. Whenever someone seems just the least bit upset or unpleased with me, I freak out and try to fix it.
I think Nabokov may have had the right approach to interviews. He would only agree to write down the answers and then send them on to the interviewer who would then write the questions. — Stanley Kubrick
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